Protest outside the Collin County Jail

The Sheriff’s Department in Collin County, Texas is going through some things. The murder of Marvin D. Scott, III while in the care of law enforcement continues to showcase how truly problematic the sheriff’s department is. In mid-March, police officers from the city of Allen arrested Mr. Scott for possession of less than two ounces of marijuana (really?) and because he was murmuring to himself. Mr. Scott suffered from schizophrenia and, given what happened, I’ll let you figure out his race. Instead of providing Mr. Scott with the help he needed, Allen PD took him to the Collin County Detention…


Question: When we broke up, my ex-boyfriend insisted that he hated me and tried to cause trouble for me with my friends, family and coworkers. He immediately got into another relationship but now he seems to be following me. He’s been stalking my Facebook and Instagram accounts and has shown up to public places where I’m hanging out with friends. I have no feelings for him but I wondered if he still does for me. Is he following me because he feels guilty about how he treated me or is he simply trying to upset me?

Answer: As the classic…


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Pitch Perfect is one of those fun movies I watch whenever it’s on TV. While I wouldn’t recommend the two sequels, the original 2012 movie is definitely worth a watch. The movie revolves around Beca, a college freshman who joins the campus all-female a cappella group. When it first came out, I thought it seemed fluffy, so when my sister initially suggested seeing it, I imagined it would be entertaining but didn’t expect too much. That’s why I was completely taken aback by my whole-hearted enjoyment of it. …


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While he was still living, I’d visit with my 90-year-old great-uncle every week. He wasn’t fond of “gadding about” (as he put it), preferring instead to spend his time sitting in his chair or watching television. One of his favorite shows was Bonanza. Since his hearing loss made talking difficult, we’d often watch the show as a way of doing something together. It wasn’t a show I’d choose to watch on my own but, over the weeks, I started appreciating it more.

Bonanza is a western that ran for 14 seasons from 1959 to 1973. It centered on the Cartwright…


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I’m obsessed with podcasts. I love listening to them while I exercise (they’re a motivator) or drive long distances. And it all started with Serial. Serial is a weekly podcast (spun off from This American Life) and it tells one story — a true story — over the course of an entire season. Their debut season was a doozy! It covered the story of the 1999 murder of Hae Min Lee, an 18 year old girl living in Baltimore, and the subsequent conviction of her 17 year old ex-boyfriend, Adnan Syed, for the crime. …


Part 3: Lessons from Hillary

Part 1: From Bad Ass to Punching Bag

Part 2: Candidate Hillary

The immediate aftermath of the 2016 election almost broke me. I was a mess watching Hillary’s concession speech. Not only was I upset over the outcome of the election but I was extremely distressed for her. How can she be so strong, I wondered (not for the first time). It seemed so unfair she had to console everyone else when she had to be dying inside. Watching it the second time via the docuseries wasn’t much better. Even though I now know what happened, it still hurts.

It…


Question: My boyfriend and I moved in together because we got along so well. At first things were great but lately he’s not acting like a man. He doesn’t handle stress well, he refuses to pay bills or do chores (but when I call him on it, he denies it), and I can’t rely on him even to do simple things like feed the dog or pick me up at work. My friends say he’s acting more like a woman. I was recently going through his phone and found out that he’s bisexual. I’m confused. …


Part 2: Candidate Hillary

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Part 1: From Bad Ass to Punching Bag

While I’d been around for the Clinton presidency, I wasn’t as familiar with Hillary’s history prior to that. There were many things I didn’t know. For one thing, prior to Hillary’s candidacy, she’d been perceived as a radical liberal. She’d fought hard against this label as people tend to be suspicious of those of us who want to transform the system (yes, I’m being sarcastic; why do you ask?). That’s why it was ironic when the media painted her as a centrist, establishment candidate.

In other words, every time she tried to…


Part 1: From Bad Ass to Punching Bag

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My preparations to watch the Hulu docuseries Hillary? A box of tissues. Others might’ve brought popcorn but I knew I’d need a different kind of comfort. Although it’s been close to four years since I embarrassingly burst into tears on an airplane as I started to read her book, What Happened, I haven’t picked it up since. It’s still too raw. Sure enough, two minutes into the first episode and I was already in tears.

In the docuseries, Hillary was laughing about how she didn’t understand why people felt so negatively about her. She seemed genuinely perplexed but also amused…


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I’ve always been in awe of my mom, Judith Ann Holden Hook Dixon. She was so strong and firm in her convictions. If something needed to be done, she did it. If there was an unpleasant truth, she faced it. If there was injustice, she confronted it. She raced through life, always determined to get where she needed to go efficiently. One fond memory is waiting for her to pick me up at my grandparent’s house. …

Dr. Misty Hook

Psychologist and writer. More of my writing can be found at www.thepsychologicalhook.com.

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